tirsdag den 10. september 2013

Isolation - 11 year old alone in a summer house for "behaviour" modification

Jup, that's right. No school AGAIN! Not that a child this traumatised can or will learn a thing ...

As if October til April's mad isolation and earlier required violent "restraining" was not enough (still not all reports seen, but Socialworker just files the whole toot anyway! So what's the point of complaining when the system really does not care about the child's wellfare? Oh wait wrong wording: The System acts in the Best interest of the child! So, is that why Parents get 20 minutes with a lawyer as a free lawyer ... and this lawyer has time to give a case his/her best effort?)

Not even the fact that other kids suffer the same lot awakens anybody, nor that there has been huge cases, cases taking 7 years to get reported ...

So at visitation yesterday he tells me! Nobody warned me - they do this all on purpose so mothers react and have no defences. The two ladies watching this again refused to report a word as the law requires them to. They report to the abovementioned socialworker that also deals with any complaints from me. Thus ... forget complaining she knows how to deal with them, and has no moral or is very forgetfull. She has a case to win and you are the enemy. Simpel - how she also should, as the law requires her to, work on repairing the family I am unable to explain. How she allows Violence and Isolation I can partly understand - bit why she does not stop it when she hears me saying we use other methods I will NEVER EVER understand.

The money scam is too great a lure I suppose and since I am still suffering from "when you co operate" you get reports about your child's wellfare. I must admit I am quite bashed emotionally. What kind of co operation is this? Is it Legal - I bet not!

Considring we lost the court case gving one hour visitaiton every third week and 15 minutes phone time a week to an 11 year old and 16 year old the next year as this Socialworker ordered -it's incredible to actually "loose" while the State saves it's own butt from a Scandalous Matter! Whatever happended to Human Rights, The Right to an Education, Handicap help ect ect? A matter the lawyers claim the Municipality has responsibility for. Oh, yes I notice things are going brilliantly in Odense. By now anybody that can read has noticed - and the reactions so far? Interesting to say the least.

But ISOLATION for what? He cannot remember - that's a bad sign so it must have been serious. And when he remembers they will help him remember? Like the other reports ... especially the missing ones? Prisoners have better rights since they are not allowed to be put into Isolation. But children can be? No Internet, No TV, No Friends, No Family contact .... and again weird behaviour modification under conditions no parent would ever even be allowed to think about! Now my kid never did anyhting criminal - but even if he was a criminal I do not understand that any Human can allow and defend this kind of treatment.

Now, how this is treatment? I never needed Policegrips, nor did his teachers that were trained ... so where is this so called safe environment for children run by Foster Care Bullies ... huge muscle powered men with tattoos - the kind of people I hang out with usually has no tattoos! Men that claim to be educated - and are not. And then not to mention the women and their "methods".

I am shocked that well qualified people stand down and won't say a word. Funny indeed - people that know children are excluded from schools, mistreatet and bullied. You'd think they would say: WAKE UP? I am even more aware now than before that every single person that wrote a "worried about the child letter" are not reacting now! Just goes to show their true intentions all along.

Twice Exceptional Denmark

Twice Exceptional Denmark er lavet for dobbelt exceptionelle børn dvs. børn med særlige forudsætninger som samtidig har indlæringsvanskeligheder. Disse børn kan have opmærksomheds-, koncentrations- og kontakt- vanskeligheder som oftest er pga. Ordblindhed/ Dyslexi, ADHD, AS, PDD NOS, OCD, Tourette osv.

Det ofte set at Børn med særlige forudsætninger er af natur Asynkron Udviklet dvs. det halter med at deres emotionelle og sociale udvikling følger med det som ses ved jævnaldrende, samtidig med at de lærer lynhurtigt det emner de er motiveret for og ender således ofte foran jævnaldrende i disse oråder, uden sparringspartner. Børnene ender ofte meget ”misforstået” og en tværfagligindsats er nødvendig hvis sådan en situation skal kunne vendes.

Tværfaglighed bør bestå af en BMSF konsulent/psykolog og derudover specialister jvf. barnets specifikke diagnoser og andre problemer hver gang handleplaner udarbejdes, barnets evalueres osv. Men der er langt vej endnu, da BMSF ikke anerkendes i Kommunerne, og dermed overses det at barnet har behov for en ”særlig” forståelse og indsigt for at børnene kan få den rette hjælp jvf. Socialloven og Inklusion.

Men desværre ses disse børn i AKT forløb, heldagsskoler og kan ende i Udsatte grupper:

De unge, som kommer til opholdsstederne, har været vanskelige at placere i de kommunale tilbud, hvor hverken de unge, som kommer til opholdstederne eller de elever, der går i de kommunale tilbud, vil profitere af at være sammen.